Age:23y/o
Diagnoses:audhd
Gender:I’m a person
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MY BOUNDAIRES:🐈‍⬛⤵️
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☕️: SOCIALIZATION & CAPACITY : I’m not very talkative online even one-one-one conversations,if I do I prefer deep conversational empirical knowledge of something then “small talk” the only thing is that it can drain my very fast;irl I’m semi-verbal and less complex.one-one-one and group interactions can cause draining for me I rather not feel overwhelmed. I often have a very dense layered way of expressing myself—I don’t wanna mask to make my self-acceptable for others,but to redimmish less overwhelming for others I’ll try my best not to make it so complex.
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☕️:DEADNAMING:
Please out of respect please don’t deadname me,I don’t care if you know me for a long time or for days and months or whatever—-I don’t want to be deadnamed at all.
Call me the name I wanna be called thanks THIS HAPPEN BEFORE AND I DONT CONDONE IT.
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☕️:DIAGNOSES & EXPLAINATION:
I have diagnosed (audhd) so it can explain why my behavior is the way it is ,from anyone perspective having diagnoses like these can enhance but also diminish a understanding of that person due to the stigma surrounding neurotypes.I have a habit of explaining and over-explaining myself not because of correctional and confrontational;but due to my neurotype—I’m a very fast associative thinker and a monotropic one aswell so I tend to layer things when explaining,if I explain how my conditions effect me that’s not me giving a justification. I want understanding from the other person.──────────────────────
☕️:INTERESTS & AESTHEITCS:
I have very strong interest due to my autsim and ADHD,they include the following listed :•Michael Jackson
•cats,black cats
•2010s internet culture+subcultre
•cartoons/nostalgia
•neurodiversity +neuroscience/typolgy
• goth subcultureHyperfixations: noneThese interests are tied to my identity anchor since I was a child and I can get a strong sense of protection over these interests especially the number one “Michael Jackson”he’s been apart of my life for decades 20 years,all my interests are rooted in how I think and express myself—some are tied to my aesthetics.The expand my further on aesthetics,I’m into many different subcultures,these subculture and aesthetics fit my cognitive framework and processing style ;the way I express myself even if it’s verbosely a lot; I’m goth primary and cognitively—I may not express my political views straightforward online but jsut know I’m:
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☕️:VALUES & BELIEFS:
• Anti-racism
• Pro-LGBTQ+
• Pro-Black / pro-choice
• Pro-intellectualism
• Anti-war / anti-genocide
• Anti-antisemitism
• Anti-authoritarianism (unless necessary for safety or structure────────────────────
☕️EMOTIONAL TURMOIL & ATTACHMENT :
I can become emotionally and cognitive attach to someone when they’re to warm,consistent & emotionally (somtimes) warmth with me.due to my autism I tend to struggle with a persons intent,inconsistently,social cues,and distance level—unless you tell me.I’ve hyperfixation patterns which had been happing for decades primalry my who life—they can lead me in spiraling loops,rumination,and emotional turmoil;unclear communication confuses and gives me mixed signals.automatcially I can’t fell nor emotionally convey when I’m attached for a person. Due to my alexthymia traits. It explains why—but I might be able to create distance from making another person uncomfortable with me.──────────────────
☕️:FEAR-BASED & TRIGGERS:
I have a phobia of bug(any kind ) my biggest ones are seashell!!! ,please refrain from sending any pictures like those they can trigger me instantly even if you deleted the picture I’ll get instrusive thoughts+panic attacks,I may disengage due to that trigger, even if yoy have an account-based in bug or anything like I describe from making that trigger spiral I won’t follow.No sending NSFW,not anything p*rnography,and dead things(horror is exclusive) but please refrain from the others; no m0@ning or s3xual contents of any sort will be tolerate in my dms—I’m an an adult ,yess but that’s not my comfort level, i have undiagnosed CPTSD—which falls under mental illness & trauma-based.
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(I want respect and understanding ,no infanlizating and condescending please.)

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